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Al-Adab Al-Mufrad

Book 42: Greetings

كتاب السَّلامِ

Hadith 1024
Sahih — Al-Albani

Greeting the Amir

'Ubaydullah ibn 'Abdullah said, "Mu'awiya went on his first hajj when he was the khalifa and 'Uthman ibn Hanif al-Ansari came to him and said, 'Peace be upon you, Amir, and the mercy of Allah.' The people of Syria objected to that and said, 'Who is this hypocrite who shortens the greeting of the Amir al-Mu'minin!' 'Uthman made his camel kneel and said, 'Amir al-Mu'minin! These men object to something which you know better than them. By Allah, I used to this greeting for Abu Bakr, 'Umar, and 'Uthman, and none of them objected to it.' Mu'awiya said to those of the people of Syria who had spoken, 'Take it easy! It was partly as he stated. But when the civil war engaged the people of Syria, they said, "Do not shorten the greeting of our khalifa in our presence (i.e. from Amir al-Mu'minin to Amir)." People of Madina, I will treat you as friends even though you use 'Amir" for a zakat collector.'"

حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو الْيَمَانِ قَالَ أَخْبَرَنَا شُعَيْبٌ عَنِ الزُّهْرِيِّ قَالَ أَخْبَرَنِي عُبَيْدُ اللهِ بْنُ عَبْدِ اللهِ قَالَ قَدِمَ مُعَاوِيَةُ حَاجًّا حَجَّتَهُ الأُولَى وَهُوَ خَلِيفَةٌ فَدَخَلَ عَلَيْهِ عُثْمَانُ بْنُ حُنَيْفٍ الأَنْصَارِيُّ فَقَالَ السَّلاَمُ عَلَيْكَ أَيُّهَا الأَمِيرُ وَرَحْمَةُ اللهِ فَأَنْكَرَهَا أَهْلُ الشَّامِ وَقَالُوا مَنْ هَذَا الْمُنَافِقُ الَّذِي يُقَصِّرُ بِتَحِيَّةِ أَمِيرِ الْمُؤْمِنِينَ فَبَرَكَ عُثْمَانُ عَلَى رُكْبَتِهِ ثُمَّ قَالَ يَا أَمِيرَ الْمُؤْمِنِينَ إِنَّ هَؤُلاَءِ أَنْكَرُوا عَلَيَّ أَمْرًا أَنْتَ أَعْلَمُ بِهِ مِنْهُمْ فَوَاللَّهِ لَقَدْ حَيَّيْتُ بِهَا أَبَا بَكْرٍ وَعُمَرَ وَعُثْمَانَ فَمَا أَنْكَرَهُ مِنْهُمْ أَحَدٌ فَقَالَ مُعَاوِيَةُ لِمَنْ تَكَلَّمَ مِنْ أَهْلِ الشَّامِ عَلَى رِسْلِكُمْ فَإِنَّهُ قَدْ كَانَ بَعْضُ مَا يَقُولُ وَلَكِنَّ أَهْلَ الشَّامِ قَدْ حَدَثَتْ هَذِهِ الْفِتَنُ قَالُوا لاَ تُقَصَّرُ عِنْدَنَا تَحِيَّةُ خَلِيفَتِنَا فَإِنِّي إِخَالُكُمْ يَا أَهْلَ الْمَدِينَةِ تَقُولُونَ لِعَامِلِ الصَّدَقَةِ أَيُّهَا الأمِيرُ

Hadith 1025
Sahih — Al-Albani

Greeting the Amir

Jabir said, "I visited al-Hajjaj and did not greet him."

حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو نُعَيْمٍ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا سُفْيَانُ عَنْ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ الْمُنْكَدِرِ عَنْ جَابِرٍ قَالَ دَخَلْتُ عَلَى الْحَجَّاجِ فَمَا سَلَّمْتُ عَلَيْهِ

Hadith 1026
Sahih — Al-Albani

Greeting the Amir

Tamim ibn Hadhlam said, "I will mention the first to be greeted as 'Amir' in Kufa. Al-Mughira ibn Shu'ba left by the Bab ar-Rahba and a man of Kinda came up to him. They claim that it was Abu Qurra al-Kindi. He greeted him and said, 'Peace be upon you, O Amir, and the mercy of Allah.' He disliked it. So the man said, 'Peace be upon you, O Amir, and the mercy of Allah. Peace be upon you. Am I one of you or not?'" Sammak ibn Salama ad-Dabi said, "After that it became an established practice."

حَدَّثَنَا مُوسَى بْنُ إِسْمَاعِيلَ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو عَوَانَةَ عَنْ مُغِيرَةَ عَنْ سِمَاكِ بْنِ سَلَمَةَ الضَّبِّيِّ عَنْ تَمِيمِ بْنِ حَذْلَمٍ قَالَ إِنِّي لَأَذْكُرُ أَوَّلَ مَنْ سَلَّمَ عَلَيْهِ بِالإِمْرَةِ بِالْكُوفَةِ خَرَجَ الْمُغِيرَةُ بْنُ شُعْبَةَ مِنْ بَابِ الرَّحَبَةِ فَفَجَأَهُ رَجُلٌ مِنْ كِنْدَةَ زَعَمُوا أَنَّهُ أَبُو قُرَّةَ الْكِنْدِيُّ فَسَلَّمَ عَلَيْهِ فَقَالَ السَّلاَمُ عَلَيْكَ أَيُّهَا الأَمِيرُ وَرَحْمَةُ اللهِ السَّلاَمُ عَلَيْكُمْ فَكَرِهَهُ فَقَالَ السَّلاَمُ عَلَيْكُمْ أَيُّهَا الأَمِيرُ وَرَحْمَةُ اللهِ السَّلاَمُ عَلَيْكُمْ هَلْ أَنَا إِلاَّ مِنْهُمْ أَمْ لاَ قَالَ سِمَاكٌ ثُمَّ أَقَرَّ بِهَا بَعْدُ

Hadith 1027
ضعيف الإسناد موقوفا — الألباني

Greeting the Amir

Ziyad ibn 'Ubayd (ar-Ru'ayni) said, "We went to Ruwayfa', the Amir of Antabulis. A man came and greeted him, saying, 'Peace be upon the Amir.' From 'Abda, he said, 'Peace be upon the Amir.' Ruwayfa' said to him, 'If you had greeted us, we would have returned the greeting. But you greeted Maslama ibn Mukhallad (Maslama was in charge of Egypt). Go to him and he will return your greeting.'"

حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدٌ قَالَ أَخْبَرَنَا عَبْدُ اللهِ قَالَ أَخْبَرَنَا حَيْوَةُ بْنُ شُرَيْحٍ قَالَ حَدَّثَنِي زِيَادُ بْنُ عُبَيْدٍ بَطْنٌ مِنْ حِمْيَرٍ قَالَ دَخَلْنَا عَلَى رُوَيْفِعٍ وَكَانَ أَمِيرًا عَلَى أَنْطَابُلُسَ فَجَاءَ رَجُلٌ فَسَلَّمَ عَلَيْهِ وَنَحْنُ عِنْدَهُ فَقَالَ السَّلاَمُ عَلَيْكَ أَيُّهَا الأَمِيرُ فَقَالَ لَهُ رُوَيْفِعٌ لَوْ سَلَّمْتَ عَلَيْنَا لَرَدَدْنَا عَلَيْكَ السَّلاَمَ وَلَكِنْ إِنَّمَا سَلَّمْتَ عَلَى مَسْلَمَةَ بْنِ مَخْلَدٍ وَكَانَ مَسْلَمَةُ عَلَى مِصْرَ اذْهَبْ إِلَيْهِ فَلْيَرُدَّ عَلَيْكَ السَّلاَمَ

Hadith 1028
Sahih — Al-Albani

Greeting someone asleep

Al-Miqdad ibn al-Aswad said, "The Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, used to come at night and would give the greeting in such a way that it would not awaken anyone asleep, but the person who was awake would hear it."

حَدَّثَنَا مُوسَى بْنُ إِسْمَاعِيلَ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا سُلَيْمَانُ بْنُ الْمُغِيرَةِ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا ثَابِتٌ عَنْ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنِ أَبِي لَيْلَى عَنِ الْمِقْدَادِ بْنِ الأَسْوَدِ قَالَ كَانَ النَّبِيُّ صلى الله عليه وسلم يَجِيءُ مِنَ اللَّيْلِ فَيُسَلِّمُ تَسْلِيمًا لاَ يُوقِظُ نَائِمًا وَيُسْمِعُ الْيَقْظَانَ

Hadith 1029
Da'if — Al-Albani

(The greeting) May Allah preserve you

'Umar said to 'Adi ibn Hatim, "May Allah preserve you from recognition."

حَدَّثَنَا عَمْرُو بْنُ عَبَّاسٍ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ الرَّحْمَنِ عَنْ سُفْيَانَ عَنْ أَبِيهِ عَنِ الشَّعْبِيِّ أَنَّ عُمَرَ قَالَ لِعَدِيِّ بْنِ حَاتِمٍ حَيَّاكَ اللَّهُ مِنْ مَعْرِفَةٍ

Hadith 1030
Sahih — Al-Albani

Welcome

'A'isha said, "Fatima walked in the same manner that the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, walked. He used to say to her, 'Welcome, my daughter!' Then he would have her sit down on his right or his left."

حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو نُعَيْمٍ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا زَكَرِيَّا عَنْ فِرَاسٍ عَنْ عَامِرٍ عَنْ مَسْرُوقٍ عَنْ عَائِشَةَ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهَا قَالَتْ أَقْبَلَتْ فَاطِمَةُ تَمْشِي كَأَنَّ مِشْيَتَهَا مَشْيُ النَّبِيِّ صلى الله عليه وسلم فَقَالَ مَرْحَبًا بِابْنَتِي ثُمَّ أَجْلَسَهَا عَنْ يَمِينِهِ أَوْ عَنْ شِمَالِهِ

Hadith 1031
Sahih — Al-Albani

Welcome

'Ali said, "'Ammar asked for permission to enter to visit the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, and the Prophet (ﷺ) recognised his voice and said, 'Welcome with the best and purest greeting!'"

حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو نُعَيْمٍ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا سُفْيَانُ عَنْ أَبِي إِسْحَاقَ عَنْ هَانِئِ بْنِ هَانِئٍ عَنْ عَلِيٍّ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُ قَالَ اسْتَأْذَنَ عَمَّارٌ عَلَى النَّبِيِّ صلى الله عليه وسلم فَعَرَفَ صَوْتَهُ فَقَالَ مَرْحَبًا بِالطَّيِّبِ الْمُطَيَّبِ

Hadith 1032
Sahih — Al-Albani

How to return the greeting

'Uqba ibn 'Abdullah ibn 'Amr who said, "While we were sitting with the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, in the shade of a tree while travelling between Makka and Madina, a bedouin, who was an example of the coarsest and fiercest kind of people came up and said, 'Peace be upon you,' and they said, 'And upon you.'"

حَدَّثَنَا يَحْيَى بْنُ سُلَيْمَانَ قَالَ حَدَّثَنِي ابْنُ وَهْبٍ قَالَ أَخْبَرَنِي حَيْوَةُ عَنْ عُقْبَةَ بْنِ مُسْلِمٍ عَنْ عَبْدِ اللهِ بْنِ عَمْرٍو قَالَ بَيْنَمَا نَحْنُ جُلُوسٌ عِنْدَ النَّبِيِّ صلى الله عليه وسلم فِي ظِلِّ شَجَرَةٍ بَيْنَ مَكَّةَ وَالْمَدِينَةِ إِذْ جَاءَ أَعْرَابِيٌّ مِنَ أَجْلَفِ النَّاسِ وَأَشَدِّهِمْ فَقَالَ السَّلامُ عَلَيْكُمْ فَقَالُوا وَعَلَيْكُمُ

Hadith 1033
Sahih — Al-Albani

How to return the greeting

Abu Jamra said, "I heard Ibn 'Abbas say when he was greeted, 'And upon you and the mercy of Allah.'"

حَدَّثَنَا حَامِدُ بْنُ عُمَرَ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو عَوَانَةَ عَنْ أَبِي جَمْرَةَ سَمِعْتُ ابْنَ عَبَّاسٍ إِذَا سُلِّمَ عَلَيْهِ يَقُولُ وَعَلَيْكَ وَرَحْمَةُ اللهِ

Hadith 1034
Hasan Sahih — Al-Albani

How to return the greeting

Qayla reported that a mans aid, "Peace be upon you, may Allah bless him and grant him peace." He said, "And peace be upon you and the mercy of Allah."

قَالَ أَبُو عَبْدِ اللهِ وَقَالَتْ قَيْلَةُ قَالَ رَجُلٌ السَّلاَمُ عَلَيْكَ يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ قَالَ وَعَلَيْكَ السَّلاَمُ وَرَحْمَةُ اللهِ

Hadith 1035
Sahih — Al-Albani

How to return the greeting

Abu Dharr said, "I came to the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, when he had finished his prayer. I was the first person to be greeted with the greeting of Islam. He said, 'And on you and the mercy of Allah. From where have you come?' I said, 'From Ghifar.'"

حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ اللهِ بْنُ مَسْلَمَةَ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا سُلَيْمَانُ بْنُ الْمُغِيرَةِ عَنْ حُمَيْدِ بْنِ هِلاَلٍ عَنْ عَبْدِ اللهِ بْنِ الصَّامِتِ عَنْ أَبِي ذَرٍّ قَالَ أَتَيْتُ النَّبِيَّ صلى الله عليه وسلم حِينَ فَرَغَ مِنْ صَلاَتِهِ فَكُنْتُ أَوَّلَ مَنْ حَيَّاهُ بِتَحِيَّةِ الإِسْلاَمِ فَقَالَ وَعَلَيْكَ وَرَحْمَةُ اللهِ مِمَّنْ أَنْتَ قُلْتُ مِنْ غِفَارٍ

Hadith 1036
Sahih — Al-Albani

How to return the greeting

'A'isha reported, "The Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, ''A'ish! This is Jibril who sends you greetings.' I said, 'And peace be upon him and the mercy of Allah and His blessings. You see what I do not see." By that she meant the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace.

حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ اللهِ قَالَ حَدَّثَنِي اللَّيْثُ قَالَ حَدَّثَنِي يُونُسُ عَنِ ابْنِ شِهَابٍ أَنَّهُ قَالَ قَالَ أَبُو سَلَمَةَ أَنَّ عَائِشَةَ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهَا قَالَتْ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم يَا عَائِشُ هَذَا جِبْرِيلُ وَهُوَ يَقْرَأُ عَلَيْكِ السَّلاَمَ قَالَتْ فَقُلْتُ وَعَلَيْهِ السَّلاَمُ وَرَحْمَةُ اللهِ وَبَرَكَاتُهُ تَرَى مَا لاَ أَرَى تُرِيدُ بِذَلِكَ رَسُولَ اللهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم

Hadith 1037
Sahih — Al-Albani

How to return the greeting

Mu'awiya ibn Qurra said that his father said to him, "My son, when a man passes by you and says, 'Peace be upon you (plural).' Do not say, 'And on you (singular)' as if you were singling out that greeting out for him alone. Rather say, 'Peace be upon you (plural).'"

حَدَّثَنَا مَطَرٌ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا رَوْحُ بْنُ عُبَادَةَ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا بِسْطَامٌ قَالَ سَمِعْتُ مُعَاوِيَةَ بْنَ قُرَّةَ قَالَ قَالَ لِي أَبِي يَا بُنَيَّ إِذَا مَرَّ بِكَ الرَّجُلُ فَقَالَ السَّلاَمُ عَلَيْكُمْ فَلاَ تَقُلْ وَعَلَيْكَ كَأَنَّكَ تَخُصُّهُ بِذَلِكَ وَحْدَهُ فَإِنَّهُ لَيْسَ وَحْدَهُ وَلَكِنْ قُلِ السَّلامُ عَلَيْكُمْ

Hadith 1038
صحيح الإسناد موقوفا على أبي ذر — الألباني

Someone who does not return the greeting

'Abdullah ibn as-Samit said, "I said to Abu Dharr, 'I passed by 'Abdu'r-Rahman ibn Umm al-Hakam and I greeted him and he did not answer me at all. He said, 'Nephew, what harm have suffered from that? Someone better than him answered you ? the angel on his right."

حَدَّثَنَا عَيَّاشُ بْنُ الْوَلِيدِ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ الأَعْلَى قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا سَعِيدٌ عَنْ قَتَادَةَ عَنْ حُمَيْدِ بْنِ هِلاَلٍ عَنْ عَبْدِ اللهِ بْنِ الصَّامِتِ قَالَ قُلْتُ لأَبِي ذَرٍّ مَرَرْتُ بِعَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنِ أُمِّ الْحَكَمِ فَسَلَّمْتُ فَمَا رَدَّ عَلَيَّ شَيْئًا فَقَالَ يَا ابْنَ أَخِي مَا يَكُونُ عَلَيْكَ مِنْ ذَلِكَ رَدَّ عَلَيْكَ مَنْ هُوَ خَيْرٌ مِنْهُ مَلَكٌ عَنْ يَمِينِهِ

Hadith 1039
صحيح الإسناد موقوفا ، وصح مرفوعا — الألباني

Someone who does not return the greeting

'Abdullah said, "Peace is one of the Names of Allah which Allah has placed on the earth. Extend it among you. When a man greets people and they answer him, then he has a higher degree than them because he reminds them of peace. If no one answers him, he will be answered by one who is better and more excellent.'"

حَدَّثَنَا عُمَرُ بْنُ حَفْصٍ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا أَبِي قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا الأَعْمَشُ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا زَيْدُ بْنُ وَهْبٍ عَنْ عَبْدِ اللهِ قَالَ إِنَّ السَّلاَمَ اسْمٌ مِنْ أَسْمَاءِ اللهِ وَضَعَهُ اللَّهُ فِي الأَرْضِ فَأَفْشُوهُ بَيْنَكُمْ إِنَّ الرَّجُلَ إِذَا سَلَّمَ عَلَى الْقَوْمِ فَرَدُّوا عَلَيْهِ كَانَتْ لَهُ عَلَيْهِمْ فَضْلُ دَرَجَةٍ لأَنَّهُ ذَكَّرَهُمُ السَّلاَمَ وَإِنْ لَمْ يُرَدَّ عَلَيْهِ رَدَّ عَلَيْهِ مَنْ هُوَ خَيْرٌ مِنْهُ وَأَطْيَبُ

Hadith 1040
Sahih — Al-Albani

Someone who does not return the greeting

Al-Hasan said, "Greeting is an act of obedience while the answer is a duty."

حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ يُوسُفَ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا سُفْيَانُ عَنْ هِشَامٍ عَنِ الْحَسَنِ قَالَ التَّسْلِيمُ تَطَوَّعٌ وَالرَّدُّ فَرِيضَةٌ

Hadith 1041
ضعيف الإسناد موقوفا — الألباني

Someone who is miserly with the greeting

'Abdullah ibn 'Amr ibn al-'As said, "A liar is someone who lies in his oath. A miser is someone who is miserly with the greeting. A thief is someone who steals the prayer."

حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ أَبِي بَكْرٍ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا فُضَيْلُ بْنُ سُلَيْمَانَ عَنْ مُوسَى بْنِ عُقْبَةَ قَالَ حَدَّثَنِي عُبَيْدُ اللهِ بْنُ سَلْمَانَ عَنْ أَبِيهِ عَنْ عَبْدِ اللهِ بْنِ عَمْرِو بْنِ الْعَاصِ قَالَ الْكَذُوبُ مَنْ كَذَبَ عَلَى يَمِينِهِ وَالْبَخِيلُ مَنْ بَخِلَ بِالسَّلاَمِ وَالسَّرُوقُ مَنْ سَرَقَ الصَّلاةَ

Hadith 1042
صحيح الإسناد موقوفا ، وصح مرفوعا — الألباني

Someone who is miserly with the greeting

Abu Hurayra said, "The most miserly of people is the one who is miserly with the greeting. The most incapable of people of people is the one who is the most incapable of supplication."

حَدَّثَنَا إِسْمَاعِيلُ بْنُ أَبَانَ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا عَلِيُّ بْنُ مُسْهِرٍ عَنْ عَاصِمٍ عَنْ أَبِي عُثْمَانَ عَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ قَالَ أَبْخَلُ النَّاسِ الَّذِي يَبْخَلُ بِالسَّلاَمِ وَإِنَّ أَعْجَزَ النَّاسِ مَنْ عَجَزَ بِالدُّعَاءِ

Hadith 1043
Sahih — Al-Albani

The Greeting to Children

Thabit al-Bannani reported that Anas ibn Malik walked by some children and greeted them. He said, "The Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, used to do that."

حَدَّثَنَا عَلِيُّ بْنُ الْجَعْدِ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا شُعْبَةُ عَنْ سَيَّارٍ عَنْ ثَابِتٍ الْبُنَانِيِّ عَنْ أَنَسِ بْنِ مَالِكٍ أَنَّهُ مَرَّ عَلَى صِبْيَانٍ فَسَلَّمَ عَلَيْهِمْ وَقَالَ كَانَ النَّبِيُّ صلى الله عليه وسلم يَفْعَلُهُ بِهِمْ