Book 27: Chapters on Righteousness And Maintaining Good Relations With Relatives
كتاب البر والصلة عن رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم
Hadith 1975
Sahih — Darussalam
What Has Been Related About Al-Fuhsh(Obscenity) [And At-Tafahhush(Uttering Obscenities)]
'Abdullah bin 'Amr said; "The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said:
"The best of you are those best in conduct.' And the Prophet (ﷺ) was not one who was obscene, nor one who uttered obscenities."
حَدَّثَنَا مَحْمُودُ بْنُ غَيْلاَنَ حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو دَاوُدَ قَالَ أَنْبَأَنَا شُعْبَةُ عَنِ الأَعْمَشِ قَالَ سَمِعْتُ أَبَا وَائِلٍ يُحَدِّثُ عَنْ مَسْرُوقٍ عَنْ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ عَمْرٍو قَالَ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم خِيَارُكُمْ أَحَاسِنُكُمْ أَخْلاَقًا وَلَمْ يَكُنِ النَّبِيُّ صلى الله عليه وسلم فَاحِشًا وَلاَ مُتَفَحِّشًا قَالَ أَبُو عِيسَى هَذَا حَدِيثٌ حَسَنٌ صَحِيحٌ
Hadith 1976
Da'if — Darussalam
What Has Been Related About The Curse
'Samurah bin Jundab narrated that the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said:
"Do not curse yourselves with Allah's curse, nor with His anger, nor with the Fire."
'Abdullah narrated that the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said:
"The believer does not insult the honor of others, nor curse, nor commit Fahishah, nor is he foul."
'Ibn 'Abbas narrated that a man cursed the wind in the presence of the Prophet, so he said:
"Do not curse the wind, for it is merely doing as ordered , and whoever curses something undeservingly, then the curse returns upon him."
What Has Been Related About Learning About Lineage
Abu Hurairah narrated that the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said:
"Learn enough about your lineage to facilitate keeping your ties of kinship. For indeed keeping the ties of kinship encourages affection among the relatives, increases the wealth, and increases the lifespan."
What Has Been Related About A Brother Supplicating For His Brother In His Absence
'Abudullah bin 'Amr narrated that the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said:
"No supplication is more readily responded to, than the supplication made for someone who is absent."
'Abu Hurairah narrated that the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said:
"(The burden of) what is said by the two who vilify each other is upon the one who initiated it, as long as the one who was wronged does not transgress."
' Al-Mughirah bin Shu'bah narrated that the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said:
"Do not vilify the dead (and) by that harm the living."
حَدَّثَنَا مَحْمُودُ بْنُ غَيْلاَنَ حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو دَاوُدَ الْحَفَرِيُّ عَنْ سُفْيَانَ عَنْ زِيَادِ بْنِ عِلاَقَةَ قَالَ سَمِعْتُ الْمُغِيرَةَ بْنَ شُعْبَةَ يَقُولُ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم لاَ تَسُبُّوا الأَمْوَاتَ فَتُؤْذُوا الأَحْيَاءَ قَالَ أَبُو عِيسَى وَقَدِ اخْتَلَفَ أَصْحَابُ سُفْيَانَ فِي هَذَا الْحَدِيثِ فَرَوَى بَعْضُهُمْ مِثْلَ رِوَايَةِ الْحَفَرِيِّ وَرَوَى بَعْضُهُمْ عَنْ سُفْيَانَ عَنْ زِيَادِ بْنِ عِلاَقَةَ قَالَ سَمِعْتُ رَجُلاً يُحَدِّثُ عِنْدَ الْمُغِيرَةِ بْنِ شُعْبَةَ عَنِ النَّبِيِّ صلى الله عليه وسلم نَحْوَهُ
Hadith 1983
Sahih — Darussalam
What Has Been Related About Verbally Abusing The Muslim Is Disobedience, And Fighting Him Is Disbelief
'Abdullah bin Mas'ud narrated that the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said:
"Verbally abusing the Muslim is disobedience and fighting him is disbelief." Zubaid said:"I said to Abu Wa'il: 'Did you hear it from 'Abdullah?' He said: 'Yes.'"
'Ali narrated that the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said:
"Indeed in Paradise there are chambers, whose outside can be seen from their inside, and their inside can be seen from their outside." A Bedouin stood and said : 'Who are they for, O Messenger of Allah?" He said: "For those who speak well, feed others, fast regularly, and perform salat [for Allah] during the night while the people sleep."
What Has Been Related About The Virtue Of The Righteous Slave
'Abu Hurairah narrated that the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said:
"How wonderful it is for one of them that he obeys Allah and fulfills the rights of his master." Meaning the slave. And Ka'b said: "Allah and His Messenger spoke the truth."
What Has Been Related About The Virtue Of The Righteous Slave
Ibn 'Umar narrated that the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said:
"There shall be upon dunes of musk- I think he said: On the Day of Judgment- a slave who fulfills Allah's right and the right of his patron (master), a man who leads a people (in prayer)) and they are pleased with him. And a man who calls for the five prayers during every day and night."
What Has Been Related About Having Amicable Relations With People
Abu Dharr said: "The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said to me:
'Have Taqwa of Allah wherever you are, and follow an evil deed with a good one to wipe it out, and treat the people with good behavior."
Anas narrated:
"A man sought a mount from the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) who said: 'Indeed, I will let you ride on a she-camel's child.' So he said: 'O Messenger of Allah! What can ashe-camel's child do?' So the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said: 'Are camels borne from other than she-camels?'"
حَدَّثَنَا قُتَيْبَةُ حَدَّثَنَا خَالِدُ بْنُ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ الْوَاسِطِيُّ عَنْ حُمَيْدٍ عَنْ أَنَسِ بْنِ مَالِكٍ أَنَّ رَجُلاً اسْتَحْمَلَ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم فَقَالَ إِنِّي حَامِلُكَ عَلَى وَلَدِ النَّاقَةِ فَقَالَ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ مَا أَصْنَعُ بِوَلَدِ النَّاقَةِ فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم وَهَلْ تَلِدُ الإِبِلَ إِلاَّ النُّوقُ قَالَ أَبُو عِيسَى هَذَا حَدِيثٌ حَسَنٌ صَحِيحٌ غَرِيبٌ
Hadith 1992
Hasan — Darussalam
What Has Been Related About Joking
Anas bin Malik narrated that the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said:
"O possessor of two ears!" Mahmud said: "Abu Usamah said: 'He only meant it as a joke.'"
حَدَّثَنَا مَحْمُودُ بْنُ غَيْلاَنَ حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو أُسَامَةَ عَنْ شَرِيكٍ عَنْ عَاصِمٍ الأَحْوَلِ عَنْ أَنَسِ بْنِ مَالِكٍ أَنَّ النَّبِيَّ صلى الله عليه وسلم قَالَ لَهُ يَا ذَا الأُذُنَيْنِ قَالَ مَحْمُودٌ قَالَ أَبُو أُسَامَةَ يَعْنِي مَازَحَهُ وَهَذَا الْحَدِيثُ حَدِيثٌ صَحِيحٌ غَرِيبٌ
Hadith 1993
Da'if — Darussalam
What Has Been Related About Arguing
Anas bin Malik narrated that the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said:
"Whoever avoids lying while he is doing so falsely, a house will be built for him on the skirts of Paradise. Whoever avoids arguing while he is in the right, a house will be built for him in its midst. And whoever has good character, a house will be built for him in its heights."