It was
narrated that Abu Sa’eed Al-Khudri said: “The Messenger of
Allah
(ﷺ) was more modest than a virgin in her chamber. If he
disliked
something, that could be seen in his face.”
حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ بَشَّارٍ حَدَّثَنَا يَحْيَى بْنُ سَعِيدٍ وَعَبْدُ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنُ مَهْدِيٍّ قَالاَ حَدَّثَنَا شُعْبَةُ عَنْ قَتَادَةَ عَنْ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ أَبِي عُتْبَةَ مَوْلًى لأَنَسِ بْنِ مَالِكٍ عَنْ أَبِي سَعِيدٍ الْخُدْرِيِّ قَالَ كَانَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ـ صلى الله عليه وسلم ـ أَشَدَّ حَيَاءً مِنْ عَذْرَاءَ فِي خِدْرِهَا وَكَانَ إِذَا كَرِهَ شَيْئًا رُئِيَ ذَلِكَ فِي وَجْهِهِ
Hadith 4181
Da’if — Darussalam
Modesty, shyness
It was
narrated from Anas that the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said:
“Every
religion has its distinct characteristic, and the distinct
characteristic of Islam is modesty.”
حَدَّثَنَا إِسْمَاعِيلُ بْنُ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ الرَّقِّيُّ حَدَّثَنَا عِيسَى بْنُ يُونُسَ عَنْ مُعَاوِيَةَ بْنِ يَحْيَى عَنِ الزُّهْرِيِّ عَنْ أَنَسٍ قَالَ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ـ صلى الله عليه وسلم ـ إِنَّ لِكُلِّ دِينٍ خُلُقًا وَخُلُقُ الإِسْلاَمِ الْحَيَاءُ
Hadith 4182
Da’if — Darussalam
Modesty, shyness
It was
narrated from Ibn ‘Abbas that the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ)
said:
“Every religion has its distinct characteristic, and the
distinct
characteristic of Islam is modesty.’”
حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ اللَّهِ بْنُ سَعِيدٍ حَدَّثَنَا سَعِيدُ بْنُ مُحَمَّدٍ الْوَرَّاقُ حَدَّثَنَا صَالِحُ بْنُ حَسَّانَ عَنْ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ كَعْبٍ الْقُرَظِيِّ عَنِ ابْنِ عَبَّاسٍ قَالَ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ـ صلى الله عليه وسلم ـ إِنَّ لِكُلِّ دِينٍ خُلُقًا وَإِنَّ خُلُقَ الإِسْلاَمِ الْحَيَاءُ
Hadith 4183
Sahih — Darussalam
Modesty, shyness
It was
narrated from ‘Uqbah bin ‘Amr, Abu Mas’ud, that the Messenger
of Allah (ﷺ) said: “Among the words that people learned from the
earlier Prophets are: ‘If you feel no shame, then do as you wish.’”
حَدَّثَنَا عَمْرُو بْنُ رَافِعٍ حَدَّثَنَا جَرِيرٌ عَنْ مَنْصُورٍ عَنْ رِبْعِيِّ بْنِ حِرَاشٍ عَنْ عُقْبَةَ بْنِ عَمْرٍو أَبِي مَسْعُودٍ قَالَ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ـ صلى الله عليه وسلم ـ إِنَّ مِمَّا أَدْرَكَ النَّاسُ مِنْ كَلاَمِ النُّبُوَّةِ الأُولَى إِذَا لَمْ تَسْتَحِي فَاصْنَعْ مَا شِئْتَ
Hadith 4184
Sahih — Darussalam
Modesty, shyness
It was
narrated from Abu Bakrah that the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ)
said:
“Modesty is part of faith, and faith will be in Paradise.
Obscenity
in speech is part of harshness and harshness will be in
Hell.’”
حَدَّثَنَا إِسْمَاعِيلُ بْنُ مُوسَى حَدَّثَنَا هُشَيْمٌ عَنْ مَنْصُورٍ عَنِ الْحَسَنِ عَنْ أَبِي بَكْرَةَ قَالَ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ـ صلى الله عليه وسلم ـ الْحَيَاءُ مِنَ الإِيمَانِ وَالإِيمَانُ فِي الْجَنَّةِ وَالْبَذَاءُ مِنَ الْجَفَاءِ وَالْجَفَاءُ فِي النَّارِ
Hadith 4185
Sahih — Darussalam
Modesty, shyness
It was
narrated from Anas that the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said:
“There
is never any obscenity in a thing, but it mars it, and there is
never
any modesty in a thing, but it adorns it.”
حَدَّثَنَا الْحَسَنُ بْنُ عَلِيٍّ الْخَلاَّلُ حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ الرَّزَّاقِ أَنْبَأَنَا مَعْمَرٌ عَنْ ثَابِتٍ عَنْ أَنَسٍ أَنَّ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ـ صلى الله عليه وسلم ـ قَالَ مَا كَانَ الْفُحْشُ فِي شَىْءٍ قَطُّ إِلاَّ شَانَهُ وَلاَ كَانَ الْحَيَاءُ فِي شَىْءٍ قَطُّ إِلاَّ زَانَهُ
Hadith 4186
Hasan — Darussalam
Forbearance
It was
narrated from Sahl bin Mu’adh bin Anas, from his father, that
the
Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said: “Whoever restrains his anger when
he
is able to implement it, Allah will call him before all of creation
on the Day of Resurrection, and will give him his choice of any houri
that he wants.”
حَدَّثَنَا حَرْمَلَةُ بْنُ يَحْيَى حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ اللَّهِ بْنُ وَهْبٍ حَدَّثَنِي سَعِيدُ بْنُ أَبِي أَيُّوبَ عَنْ أَبِي مَرْحُومٍ عَنْ سَهْلِ بْنِ مُعَاذِ بْنِ أَنَسٍ عَنْ أَبِيهِ أَنَّ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ـ صلى الله عليه وسلم ـ قَالَ مَنْ كَظَمَ غَيْظًا وَهُوَ قَادِرٌ عَلَى أَنْ يُنْفِذَهُ دَعَاهُ اللَّهُ عَلَى رُءُوسِ الْخَلاَئِقِ يَوْمَ الْقِيَامَةِ حَتَّى يُخَيِّرَهُ فِي أَىِّ الْحُورِ شَاءَ
Hadith 4187
Da’if — Darussalam
Forbearance
Abu
Sa’eed Al-Khudri said: “We were sitting with the Messenger of
Allah (ﷺ) and he said: ‘The delegations of ‘Abdul-Qais have
come to
you,’ and no one had seen anyone. While we were like that,
they came
and alighted. They came to the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) and
Ashajj
‘Ansari was left behind. He came afterwards, and halted at
the
halting-place, made his she-camel kneel down, and changed of his
traveling clothes, then he came to the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ). The
Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said to him: ‘O Ashajj, you have two
characteristics that Allah likes: Forbearance and deliberation.’ He
said: ‘O Messenger of Allah, was I born with them or are they
acquired?’ He said: ‘No, rather it is something that you were
born
with.’”
حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو كُرَيْبٍ مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ الْعَلاَءِ الْهَمْدَانِيُّ حَدَّثَنَا يُونُسُ بْنُ بُكَيْرٍ حَدَّثَنَا خَالِدُ بْنُ دِينَارٍ الشَّيْبَانِيُّ عَنْ عُمَارَةَ الْعَبْدِيِّ حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو سَعِيدٍ الْخُدْرِيُّ قَالَ كُنَّا جُلُوسًا عِنْدَ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ ـ صلى الله عليه وسلم ـ فَقَالَ أَتَتْكُمْ وُفُودُ عَبْدِ الْقَيْسِ وَمَا يَرَى أَحَدٌ فَبَيْنَا نَحْنُ كَذَلِكَ إِذْ جَاءُوا فَنَزَلُوا فَأَتَوْا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ـ صلى الله عليه وسلم ـ وَبَقِيَ الأَشَجُّ الْعَصَرِيُّ فَجَاءَ بَعْدُ فَنَزَلَ مَنْزِلاً فَأَنَاخَ رَاحِلَتَهُ وَوَضَعَ ثِيَابَهُ جَانِبًا ثُمَّ جَاءَ إِلَى رَسُولِ اللَّهِ ـ صلى الله عليه وسلم ـ فَقَالَ لَهُ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ـ صلى الله عليه وسلم ـ يَا أَشَجُّ إِنَّ فِيكَ لَخَصْلَتَيْنِ يُحِبُّهُمَا اللَّهُ الْحِلْمَ وَالتُّؤَدَةَ قَالَ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ أَشَىْءٌ جُبِلْتُ عَلَيْهِ أَمْ شَىْءٌ حَدَثَ لِي قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ـ صلى الله عليه وسلم ـ بَلَ شَىْءٌ جُبِلْتَ عَلَيْهِ
Hadith 4188
Sahih — Darussalam
Forbearance
It was
narrated from Ibn ‘Abbas that the Prophet (ﷺ) said to Ashajj
‘Ansari: “You have two characteristics that Allah likes:
Forbearance
and modesty.”
حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو إِسْحَاقَ الْهَرَوِيُّ حَدَّثَنَا الْعَبَّاسُ بْنُ الْفَضْلِ الأَنْصَارِيُّ حَدَّثَنَا قُرَّةُ بْنُ خَالِدٍ حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو جَمْرَةَ عَنِ ابْنِ عَبَّاسٍ أَنَّ النَّبِيَّ ـ صلى الله عليه وسلم ـ قَالَ لِلأَشَجِّ الْعَصَرِيِّ إِنَّ فِيكَ خَصْلَتَيْنِ يُحِبُّهُمَا اللَّهُ الْحِلْمَ وَالْحَيَاءَ
Hadith 4189
Da’if — Darussalam
Forbearance
It was
narrated from Ibn ‘Umar that the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ)
said:
“There is no gulp that brings greater reward with Allah than a
gulp
of anger that a man swallows (suppresses), seeking thereby the
Face
of Allah.”
حَدَّثَنَا زَيْدُ بْنُ أَخْزَمَ حَدَّثَنَا بِشْرُ بْنُ عُمَرَ حَدَّثَنَا حَمَّادُ بْنُ سَلَمَةَ عَنْ يُونُسَ بْنِ عُبَيْدٍ عَنِ الْحَسَنِ عَنِ ابْنِ عُمَرَ قَالَ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ـ صلى الله عليه وسلم ـ مَا مِنْ جُرْعَةٍ أَعْظَمُ أَجْرًا عِنْدَ اللَّهِ مِنْ جُرْعَةِ غَيْظٍ كَظَمَهَا عَبْدٌ ابْتِغَاءَ وَجْهِ اللَّهِ
Hadith 4190
Hasan — Darussalam
Grief and weeping
It was
narrated from Abu Dharr that the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ)
said: “I
see what you do not see, and I hear what you do not hear. The
heaven
is creaking and it should creak, for there is no space in it
the
width of four fingers but there is an angel there, prostrating to
Allah. By Allah, if you knew what I know, you would laugh little and
weep much, and you would never enjoy women in your beds, and you
would
go out in the streets, beseeching Allah.’”
It was
narrated from Anas bin Malik that the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ)
said:
“If you knew what I know, you would laugh little and weep much.”
حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ الْمُثَنَّى حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ الصَّمَدِ بْنُ عَبْدِ الْوَارِثِ حَدَّثَنَا هَمَّامٌ عَنْ قَتَادَةَ عَنْ أَنَسِ بْنِ مَالِكٍ قَالَ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ـ صلى الله عليه وسلم ـ لَوْ تَعْلَمُونَ مَا أَعْلَمُ لَضَحِكْتُمْ قَلِيلاً وَلَبَكَيْتُمْ كَثِيرًا
Hadith 4192
Sahih — Darussalam
Grief and weeping
‘Amir
bin ‘Abdullah bin Zubair narrated that his father told him that
there was no more than four years between their becoming Muslim and
the revelation of this Verse, by which Allah reprimanded them: “Lest
they become as those who received the Scripture before, and the term
was prolonged for them and so their hearts were hardened? And many of
them were rebellious.” [57:16]
It was
narrated from Abu Hurairah that the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ)
said:
“Do not laugh a lot, for laughing a lot deadens the heart.”
حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو بِشْرٍ بَكْرُ بْنُ خَلَفٍ حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو بَكْرٍ الْحَنَفِيُّ حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ الْحَمِيدِ بْنُ جَعْفَرٍ عَنْ إِبْرَاهِيمَ بْنِ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ حُنَيْنٍ عَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ قَالَ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ـ صلى الله عليه وسلم ـ لاَ تُكْثِرُوا الضَّحِكَ فَإِنَّ كَثْرَةَ الضَّحِكِ تُمِيتُ الْقَلْبَ
Hadith 4194
Sahih — Darussalam
Grief and weeping
It was
narrated that ‘Abdullah said: “The Prophet (ﷺ) said to me:
‘Recite Qur’an to me,’ so I recited Surat An-Nisa’ to him,
and when I
reached (the Verse): “How (will it be) then, when We
bring forth from
each nation a witness and We bring you as a witness
against these
people?” [4:41] I looked at him, and his eyes were
filled with tears.”
حَدَّثَنَا هَنَّادُ بْنُ السَّرِيِّ حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو الأَحْوَصِ عَنِ الأَعْمَشِ عَنْ إِبْرَاهِيمَ عَنْ عَلْقَمَةَ عَنْ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ قَالَ قَالَ لِيَ النَّبِيُّ ـ صلى الله عليه وسلم ـ اقْرَأْ عَلَىَّ فَقَرَأْتُ عَلَيْهِ بِسُورَةِ النِّسَاءِ حَتَّى إِذَا بَلَغْتُ [ 4 41 41]فَكَيْفَ إِذَا جِئْنَا مِنْ كُلِّ أُمَّةٍ بِشَهِيدٍ وَجِئْنَا بِكَ عَلَى هَؤُلاَءِ شَهِيدًا فَنَظَرْتُ إِلَيْهِ فَإِذَا عَيْنَاهُ تَدْمَعَانِ
Hadith 4195
Hasan — Darussalam
Grief and weeping
It was
narrated that Bara’ said: “We were with the Messenger of Allah
(ﷺ) at a funeral, and he sat at the edge of the grave weeping,
until
the ground became wet. Then he said: ‘O my brothers, prepare
yourselves for something like this.’”
حَدَّثَنَا الْقَاسِمُ بْنُ زَكَرِيَّا بْنِ دِينَارٍ حَدَّثَنَا إِسْحَاقُ بْنُ مَنْصُورٍ حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو رَجَاءٍ الْخُرَاسَانِيُّ عَنْ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ مَالِكٍ عَنِ الْبَرَاءِ قَالَ كُنَّا مَعَ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ ـ صلى الله عليه وسلم ـ فِي جِنَازَةٍ فَجَلَسَ عَلَى شَفِيرِ الْقَبْرِ فَبَكَى حَتَّى بَلَّ الثَّرَى ثُمَّ قَالَ يَا إِخْوَانِي لِمِثْلِ هَذَا فَأَعِدُّوا
Hadith 4196
Da’if — Darussalam
Grief and weeping
It was
narrated from Sa’d bin Abu Waqqas that the Messenger of Allah
(ﷺ)
said: ‘Weep, and if you cannot weep then pretend to weep.”
حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ اللَّهِ بْنُ أَحْمَدَ بْنِ بَشِيرِ بْنِ ذَكْوَانَ الدِّمَشْقِيُّ حَدَّثَنَا الْوَلِيدُ بْنُ مُسْلِمٍ حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو رَافِعٍ عَنِ ابْنِ أَبِي مُلَيْكَةَ عَنْ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنِ السَّائِبِ عَنْ سَعْدِ بْنِ أَبِي وَقَّاصٍ قَالَ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ـ صلى الله عليه وسلم ـ ابْكُوا فَإِنْ لَمْ تَبْكُوا فَتَبَاكَوْا
Hadith 4197
Da’if — Darussalam
Grief and weeping
It was
narrated from ‘Abdullah bin Mas’ud that the Messenger of Allah
(ﷺ) said: “There is no believing slave who sheds tears, even if
they
are like the head of a fly, out of fear of Allah, and they roll
down
his cheeks, but Allah will forbid him to the Fire.”
Protecting (one's) deeds (by fearing their non-acceptance)
It was
narrated that ‘Aishah said: “I said: ‘O Messenger of Allah,
‘And those who give that (their charity) which they give (and also
do
other good deeds) with their hearts full of fear.” [23:60] Is
this the
one who commits adultery, steals and drinks alcohol?’ He
said: ‘No, O
daughter of Abu Bakr’ – O daughter of Siddiq –
rather it is a man who
fasts and gives charity and prays, but he
fears that those will not be
accepted from him.’”
Protecting (one's) deeds (by fearing their non-acceptance)
Mu’awiyah bin Abu Sufyan said: “I heard the Messenger of Allah
(ﷺ)
say: ‘Deeds are like vessels. If the lower part is good then
the upper
part will be good, and if the lower part is bad then the
upper part
will be bad.’”
حَدَّثَنَا عُثْمَانُ بْنُ إِسْمَاعِيلَ بْنِ عِمْرَانَ الدِّمَشْقِيُّ حَدَّثَنَا الْوَلِيدُ بْنُ مُسْلِمٍ حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنُ يَزِيدَ بْنِ جَابِرٍ حَدَّثَنِي أَبُو عَبْدِ رَبٍّ قَالَ سَمِعْتُ مُعَاوِيَةَ بْنَ أَبِي سُفْيَانَ يَقُولُ سَمِعْتُ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ـ صلى الله عليه وسلم ـ يَقُولُ إِنَّمَا الأَعْمَالُ كَالْوِعَاءِ إِذَا طَابَ أَسْفَلُهُ طَابَ أَعْلاَهُ وَإِذَا فَسَدَ أَسْفَلُهُ فَسَدَ أَعْلاَهُ