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Al-Adab Al-Mufrad

Book 30: General Behavior

كتاب التصرف العام

Hadith 578
صحيح موقوفا ، وهو في حكم المرفوع، وقد روي مرفوعا نحوه — الألباني

A man going back to live as a Bedouin

Abu Hurayra said, "There are seven major wrong actions. The first of them is to associate things with Allah, then killing someone, slandering chaste women, and going back to live as a Bedouin after having made hijra."

حَدَّثَنَا مُوسَى بْنُ إِسْمَاعِيلَ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو عَوَانَةَ عَنْ عُمَرَ بْنِ أَبِي سَلَمَةَ عَنْ أَبِيهِ عَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ قَالَ الْكَبَائِرُ سَبْعٌ أَوَّلُهُنَّ الإِشْرَاكُ بِاللَّهِ وَقَتْلُ النَّفْسِ وَرَمْيُ الْمُحْصَنَاتِ وَالأعْرَابِيَّةُ بَعْدَ الْهِجْرَةِ

Hadith 579
Hasan — Al-Albani

Someone who lives in villages

Thawban said, "The Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, told me, 'Do not live the suburbs. The person who lives in the suburbs is like someone who lives in the graves.'"

حَدَّثَنَا أَحْمَدُ بْنُ عَاصِمٍ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا حَيْوَةُ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا بَقِيَّةُ قَالَ حَدَّثَنِي صَفْوَانُ قَالَ سَمِعْتُ رَاشِدَ بْنَ سَعْدٍ يَقُولُ سَمِعْتُ ثَوْبَانَ يَقُولُ قَالَ لِي رَسُولُ اللهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم لاَ تَسْكُنِ الْكُفُورَ فَإِنَّ سَاكِنَ الْكُفُورِ كَسَاكِنِ الْقُبُورِ قَالَ أَحْمَدُ الْكُفُورُ الْقُرَى

Hadith 580
Sahih — Al-Albani

Going out to water-courses

Shurayh said, "I asked 'A'isha about going out to the desert. I said, 'Did the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, go out to the desert?' 'Yes,' she replied, 'Yes, he went out to those hillside streams.'"

حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ الصَّبَّاحِ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا شَرِيكٌ عَنِ الْمِقْدَامِ بْنِ شُرَيْحٍ عَنْ أَبِيهِ قَالَ سَأَلْتُ عَائِشَةَ عَنِ الْبَدْوِ قُلْتُ وَهَلْ كَانَ النَّبِيُّ صلى الله عليه وسلم يَبْدُو فَقَالَتْ نَعَمْ كَانَ يَبْدُو إِلَى هَؤُلاَءِ التِّلاعِ

Hadith 581
Da'if — Al-Albani

Going out to water-courses

'Amr ibn Wahb said, "I saw Muhammad ibn 'Abdullah ibn Usayd riding when he was in ihram. He placed his garment on his shoulder and he placed it on his thighs. I said, 'What is this?' He replied, 'I saw 'Abdullah act like this.'"

حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو حَفْصِ بْنُ عَلِيٍّ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو عَاصِمٍ عَنْ عَمْرِو بْنِ وَهْبٍ قَالَ رَأَيْتُ مُحَمَّدَ بْنَ عَبْدِ اللهِ بْنِ أُسَيْدٍ إِذَا رَكِبَ وَهُوَ مُحْرِمٌ وَضَعَ ثَوْبَهُ عَنْ مَنْكِبَيْهِ وَوَضَعَهُ عَلَى فَخِذَيْهِ فَقُلْتُ مَا هَذَا قَالَ رَأَيْتُ عَبْدَ اللهِ يَفْعَلُ مِثْلَ هَذَا

Hadith 582
Da'if — Al-Albani

Someone who wants to conceal secrets and to sit

'Abdullah ibn 'Abdu'r-Rahman ibn 'Abdu'l-Qari reported that 'Umar ibn al-Khattab and an Ansari man were sitting together when 'Abdu'r-Rahman ibn 'Abdu'l-Qari came and sat with them. 'Umar said, "We do not want to stop our conversation." 'Abdu'r-Rahman said, "I will not sit with those people, Amir al-Mu'minin." 'Umar said, "Sit with so-and-so and so-and-so and do not stop our conversation. Then he asked the Ansari, "Who do you think should be the khalif after me?" The Ansari counted off some men among the Muhajirun, but did not mentioned 'Ali. 'Umar asked, "What do they have against Abu'l-Hasan (i.e. 'Ali)? By Allah, if he were in charge of them, he would be the best suited to set them on the Path of the Truth."

حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ اللهِ بْنُ مُحَمَّدٍ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ الرَّزَّاقِ قَالَ أَخْبَرَنَا مَعْمَرٌ قَالَ أَخْبَرَنِي مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ عَبْدِ اللهِ بْنِ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنِ عَبْدٍ الْقَارِيِّ عَنْ أَبِيهِ أَنَّ عُمَرَ بْنَ الْخَطَّابِ وَرَجُلاً مِنَ الأَنْصَارِ كَانَا جَالِسَيْنِ فَجَاءَ عَبْدُ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنُ عَبْدِ الْقَارِيِّ فَجَلَسَ إِلَيْهِمَا فَقَالَ عُمَرُ إِنَّا لاَ نُحِبُّ مَنْ يَرْفَعُ حَدِيثَنَا فَقَالَ لَهُ عَبْدُ الرَّحْمَنِ لَسْتُ أُجَالِسُ أُولَئِكَ يَا أَمِيرَ الْمُؤْمِنِينَ قَالَ عُمَرُ بَلَى فَجَالِسْ هَذَا وَهَذَا وَلاَ تَرْفَعْ حَدِيثَنَا ثُمَّ قَالَ لِلأَنْصَارِيِّ مَنْ تَرَى النَّاسَ يَقُولُونَ يَكُونُ الْخَلِيفَةَ بَعْدِي فَعَدَّدَ الأَنْصَارِيُّ رِجَالاً مِنَ الْمُهَاجِرِينَ لَمْ يُسَمِّ عَلِيًّا فَقَالَ عُمَرُ فَمَا لَهُمْ عَنْ أَبِي الْحَسَنِ فَوَاللَّهِ إِنَّهُ لَأَحْرَاهُمْ إِنْ كَانَ عَلَيْهِمْ أَنْ يُقِيمَهُمْ عَلَى طَرِيقَةٍ مِنَ الْحَقِّ

Hadith 583
Hasan — Al-Albani

Deliberation in Affairs

Al-Hasan related that a man died and left a son and a mawla. He appointed the mawla as his son's guardian. This was not remiss and continued to look after the lad until he came of age an then he found him a wife. Then the boy said to him, "Equip me so that I can seek for knowledge." He fitted him out. The boy then went to a man of knowledge and asked him to teach him. The man said, "Tell me when you want to leave and I will teach you." The boy said, "I feel should leave, so instruct me." The scholar said, "Have taqwa of Allah. Have patience. Do not be hasty." Al-Hasan remarked that this contains all good.

حَدَّثَنَا مُوسَى بْنُ إِسْمَاعِيلَ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو هِلاَلٍ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا الْحَسَنُ أَنَّ رَجُلاً تُوُفِّيَ وَتَرَكَ ابْنًا لَهُ وَمَوْلًى لَهُ فَأَوْصَى مَوْلاَهُ بِابْنِهِ فَلَمْ يَأْلُوهُ حَتَّى أَدْرَكَ وَزَوَّجَهُ فَقَالَ لَهُ جَهَّزْنِي أَطْلُبِ الْعِلْمَ فَجَهَّزَهُ فَأَتَى عَالِمًا فَسَأَلَهُ فَقَالَ إِذَا أَرَدْتَ أَنْ تَنْطَلِقَ فَقُلْ لِي أُعَلِّمْكَ فَقَالَ حَضَرَ مِنِّي الْخُرُوجُ فَعَلِّمْنِي فَقَالَ اتَّقِ اللَّهَ وَاصْبِرْ وَلاَ تَسْتَعْجِلْ قَالَ الْحَسَنُ فِي هَذَا الْخَيْرُ كُلُّهُ فَجَاءَ وَلاَ يَكَادُ يَنْسَاهُنَّ إِنَّمَا هُنَّ ثَلاَثٌ فَلَمَّا جَاءَ أَهْلَهُ نَزَلَ عَنْ رَاحِلَتِهِ فَلَمَّا نَزَلَ الدَّارَ إِذَا هُوَ بِرَجُلٍ نَائِمٍ مُتَرَاخٍ عَنِ الْمَرْأَةِ وَإِذَا امْرَأَتُهُ نَائِمَةٌ قَالَ وَاللَّهِ مَا أُرِيدُ مَا أَنْتَظِرُ بِهَذَا فَرَجَعَ إِلَى رَاحِلَتِهِ فَلَمَّا أَرَادَ أَنْ يَأْخُذَ السَّيْفَ قَالَ اتَّقِ اللَّهَ وَاصْبِرْ وَلاَ تَسْتَعْجِلْ فَرَجَعَ فَلَمَّا قَامَ عَلَى رَأْسِهِ قَالَ مَا أَنْتَظِرُ بِهَذَا شَيْئًا فَرَجَعَ إِلَى رَاحِلَتِهِ فَلَمَّا أَرَادَ أَنْ يَأْخُذَ سَيْفَهُ ذَكَرَهُ فَرَجَعَ إِلَيْهِ فَلَمَّا قَامَ عَلَى رَأْسِهِ اسْتَيْقَظَ الرَّجُلُ فَلَمَّا رَآهُ وَثَبَ إِلَيْهِ فَعَانَقَهُ وَقَبَّلَهُ وَسَاءَلَهُ قَالَ مَا أَصَبْتَ بَعْدِي قَالَ أَصَبْتُ وَاللَّهِ بَعْدَكَ خَيْرًا كَثِيرًا أَصَبْتُ وَاللَّهِ بَعْدَكَ أَنِّي مَشَيْتُ اللَّيْلَةَ بَيْنَ السَّيْفِ وَبَيْنَ رَأْسِكَ ثَلاَثَ مِرَارٍ فَحَجَزَنِي مَا أَصَبْتُ مِنَ الْعِلْمِ عَنْ قَتْلِكَ

Hadith 584
Sahih — Al-Albani

Deliberation in Affairs

Ashajj 'Abdu'l-Qays said, "The Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said to me, 'You have two qualities which Allah loves.' I asked, 'What are they, may Allah bless him and grant him peace,?' He said, 'Forbearance and modesty.' I asked, 'Have I had them for a long time or are they new?' He replied, 'You have had them for a long time.' I said, 'Praise be to Allah who fashioned me with two qualities which Allah loves!'"

حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو مَعْمَرٍ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ الْوَارِثِ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا يُونُسُ عَنْ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنِ أَبِي بَكْرَةَ عَنْ أَشَجِّ عَبْدِ الْقَيْسِ قَالَ قَالَ لِيَ النَّبِيُّ صلى الله عليه وسلم إِنَّ فِيكَ لَخُلُقَيْنِ يُحِبُّهُمَا اللَّهُ قُلْتُ وَمَا هُمَا يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ قَالَ الْحِلْمُ وَالْحَيَاءُ قُلْتُ قَدِيمًا كَانَ أَوْ حَدِيثًا قَالَ قَدِيمًا قُلْتُ الْحَمْدُ لِلَّهِ الَّذِي جَبَلَنِي عَلَى خُلُقَيْنِ أَحَبَّهُمَا اللَّهُ

Hadith 585
صـحـيـح — الألباني

Deliberation in Affairs

(As hadith above)

حَدَّثَنَا عَلِيُّ بْنُ أَبِي هَاشِمٍ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا إِسْمَاعِيلُ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا سَعِيدُ بْنُ أَبِي عَرُوبَةَ عَنْ قَتَادَةَ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا مَنْ لَقِيَ الْوَفْدَ الَّذِينَ قَدِمُوا عَلَى النَّبِيِّ صلى الله عليه وسلم مِنْ عَبْدِ الْقَيْسِ وَذَكَرَ قَتَادَةُ أَبَا نَضْرَةَ عَنْ أَبِي سَعِيدٍ الْخُدْرِيِّ قَالَ قَالَ النَّبِيُّ صلى الله عليه وسلم لأَشَجِّ عَبْدِ الْقَيْسِ إِنَّ فِيكَ لَخَصْلَتَيْنِ يُحِبُّهُمَا اللَّهُ الْحِلْمُ وَالأَنَاةُ

Hadith 586
صـحـيـح — الألباني

Deliberation in Affairs

(As hadith above)

حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ اللهِ بْنُ عَبْدِ الْوَهَّابِ قَالَ أَخْبَرَنَا بِشْرُ بْنُ الْمُفَضَّلِ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا قُرَّةُ عَنْ أَبِي جَمْرَةَ عَنِ ابْنِ عَبَّاسٍ قَالَ قَالَ النَّبِيُّ صلى الله عليه وسلم لِلأَشَجِّ أَشَجِّ عَبْدِ الْقَيْسِ إِنَّ فِيكَ لَخَصْلَتَيْنِ يُحِبُّهُمَا اللَّهُ الْحِلْمُ وَالأنَاةُ

Hadith 587
Da'if — Al-Albani

Deliberation in Affairs

Mazida al-'Abdi said, "Ashajj came and took the hand of the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, and kissed it. The Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, told him, 'You have two qualities which Allah and His Messenger love.' He asked, 'Was I born with them or are they characteristics which I have acquired?' He said, 'No, they are part of the natural character on which you were formed.' Ashajj said, 'Praise belongs to Allah who has created me with what Allah an His Messenger love!'"

حَدَّثَنَا قَيْسُ بْنُ حَفْصٍ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا طَالِبُ بْنُ حُجَيْرٍ الْعَبْدِيُّ قَالَ حَدَّثَنِي هُودُ بْنُ عَبْدِ اللهِ بْنِ سَعْدٍ سَمِعَ جَدَّهُ مَزِيدَةَ الْعَبْدِيَّ قَالَ جَاءَ الأَشَجُّ يَمْشِي حَتَّى أَخَذَ بِيَدِ النَّبِيِّ صلى الله عليه وسلم فَقَبَّلَهَا فَقَالَ لَهُ النَّبِيُّ صلى الله عليه وسلم أَمَا إِنَّ فِيكَ لَخُلُقَيْنِ يُحِبُّهُمَا اللَّهُ وَرَسُولُهُ قَالَ جَبْلاً جُبِلْتُ عَلَيْهِ أَوْ خُلِقَا مَعِي قَالَ لاَ بَلْ جَبْلاً جُبِلْتَ عَلَيْهِ قَالَ الْحَمْدُ لِلَّهِ الَّذِي جَبَلَنِي عَلَى مَا يُحِبُّ اللَّهُ وَرَسُولُهُ

Hadith 588
Sahih — Al-Albani

Tyrannical Behaviour

Ibn 'Abbas said, "If one mountain had acted tyrannically towards another mountain, the aggressor would have been pulverised."

حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو نُعَيْمٍ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا فِطْرٌ عَنْ أَبِي يَحْيَى قَالَ سَمِعْتُ مُجَاهِدًا عَنِ ابْنِ عَبَّاسٍ قَالَ لَوْ أَنَّ جَبَلاً بَغَى عَلَى جَبَلٍ لَدُكَّ الْبَاغِي

Hadith 589
Sahih — Al-Albani

Tyrannical Behaviour

See hadith 554.

حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ سَلاَمٍ قَالَ أَخْبَرَنَا إِسْمَاعِيلُ بْنُ جَعْفَرٍ عَنْ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ عَمْرٍو عَنْ أَبِي سَلَمَةَ عَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ أَنَّ رَسُولَ اللهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم قَالَ احْتَجَّتِ النَّارُ وَالْجَنَّةُ فَقَالَتِ النَّارُ يَدْخُلُنِي الْمُتَكَبِّرُونَ وَالْمُتَجَبِّرُونَ وَقَالَتِ الْجَنَّةُ لاَ يَدْخُلُنِي إِلاَّ الضُّعَفَاءُ الْمَسَاكِينُ فَقَالَ لِلنَّارِ أَنْتِ عَذَابِي أَنْتَقِمُ بِكِ مِمَّنْ شِئْتُ وَقَالَ لِلْجَنَّةِ أَنْتِ رَحْمَتِي أَرْحَمُ بِكِ مَنْ شِئْتُ

Hadith 590
Sahih — Al-Albani

Tyrannical Behaviour

Fadala ibn 'Ubayd reported that the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "Do not ask about three: a man who parts company with the community, rebels the ruler and dies while he is a still a rebel. Do not ask about him. Or a slave or slavegirl who runs away from his master. Or a woman whose husband is absent and who has sufficient provision and then displays her adornments to strangers and mixes freely. Do not ask about three: a man who contends with Allah regarding His cloak. His cloak is pride and His wrapper is His might. Also a man who doubts the command of Allah. and someone who despairs of Allah's mercy."

حَدَّثَنَا عُثْمَانُ بْنُ صَالِحٍ قَالَ أَخْبَرَنَا عَبْدُ اللهِ بْنُ وَهْبٍ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو هَانِئٍ الْخَوْلاَنِيُّ عَنْ أَبِي عَلِيٍّ الْجَنْبِيِّ عَنْ فَضَالَةَ بْنِ عُبَيْدٍ عَنِ النَّبِيِّ صلى الله عليه وسلم قَالَ ثَلاَثَةٌ لاَ يُسْأَلُ عَنْهُمْ رَجُلٌ فَارَقَ الْجَمَاعَةَ وَعَصَى إِمَامَهُ فَمَاتَ عَاصِيًا فَلاَ تَسْأَلْ عَنْهُ وَأَمَةٌ أَوْ عَبْدٌ أَبِقَ مِنْ سَيِّدِهِ وَامْرَأَةٌ غَابَ زَوْجُهَا وَكَفَاهَا مَؤُونَةَ الدُّنْيَا فَتَبَرَّجَتْ وَتَمَرَّجَتْ بَعْدَهُ وَثَلاَثَةٌ لاَ يُسْأَلُ عَنْهُمْ رَجُلٌ نَازَعَ اللَّهَ رِدَاءَهُ فَإِنَّ رِدَاءَهُ الْكِبْرِيَاءُ وَإِزَارَهُ عِزَّهُ وَرَجُلٌ شَكَّ فِي أَمْرِ اللهِ وَالْقُنُوطُ مِنْ رَحْمَةِ اللهِ

Hadith 591
Sahih — Al-Albani

Tyrannical Behaviour

Bakkar ibn 'Abdu'l-'Aziz reported from his grandfather that the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "Allah will defer whatever wrong actions He wills until the Day of Rising except for tyrannical behaviour, disobeying parents or cutting off relatives. He will punish the one who commits those things in this world before he dies."

حَدَّثَنَا حَامِدُ بْنُ عُمَرَ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا بَكَّارُ بْنُ عَبْدِ الْعَزِيزِ عَنْ أَبِيهِ عَنْ جَدِّهِ عَنِ النَّبِيِّ صلى الله عليه وسلم قَالَ كُلُّ ذُنُوبٍ يُؤَخِّرُ اللَّهُ مِنْهَا مَا شَاءَ إِلَى يَوْمِ الْقِيَامَةِ إِلاَّ الْبَغْيَ وَعُقُوقَ الْوَالِدَيْنِ أَوْ قَطِيعَةَ الرَّحِمِ يُعَجِّلُ لِصَاحِبِهَا فِي الدُّنْيَا قَبْلَ الْمَوْتِ

Hadith 592
Sahih (Mauquf) — Al-Albani

Tyrannical Behaviour

Abu Hurayra said, "One of you looks at the mote in his brother's eye while forgetting the stump in his own eye."

حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ عُبَيْدِ بْنِ مَيْمُونٍ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا مِسْكِينُ بْنُ بُكَيْرٍ الْحَذَّاءُ الْحَرَّانِيُّ عَنْ جَعْفَرِ بْنِ بُرْقَانَ عَنْ يَزِيدَ بْنِ الأَصَمِّ قَالَ سَمِعْتُ أَبَا هُرَيْرَةَ يَقُولُ يُبْصِرُ أَحَدُكُمُ الْقَذَاةَ فِي عَيْنِ أَخِيهِ وَيَنْسَى الْجِذْلَ أَوِ الْجِذْعَ فِي عَيْنِ نَفْسِهِ

Hadith 593
Hasan — Al-Albani

Tyrannical Behaviour

Mu'awiya ibn Qurra said, "I was with Ma'qil al-Muzn when he removed something harmful from the road. Then I saw something and went over to it. He asked. 'What made you do that, nephew?' He replied, 'I saw you do something, so I did it.' He said, 'Nephew, you have done well. I heard the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, say, "Whoever removes something harmful from the road of the Muslims has a good deed written for him. Anyone who has his good deed accepted will enter the Garden."'"

حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ اللهِ بْنُ مُحَمَّدٍ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا الْخَلِيلُ بْنُ أَحْمَدَ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا الْمُسْتَنِيرُ بْنُ أَخْضَرَ قَالَ حَدَّثَنِي مُعَاوِيَةُ بْنُ قُرَّةَ قَالَ كُنْتُ مَعَ مَعْقِلٍ الْمُزَنِيِّ فَأَمَاطَ أَذًى عَنِ الطَّرِيقِ فَرَأَيْتُ شَيْئًا فَبَادَرْتُهُ فَقَالَ مَا حَمَلَكَ عَلَى مَا صَنَعْتَ يَا ابْنَ أَخِي قَالَ رَأَيْتُكَ تَصْنَعُ شَيْئًا فَصَنَعْتُهُ قَالَ أَحْسَنْتَ يَا ابْنَ أَخِي سَمِعْتُ النَّبِيَّ صلى الله عليه وسلم يَقُولُ مَنْ أَمَاطَ أَذًى عَنْ طَرِيقِ الْمُسْلِمِينَ كُتِبَ لَهُ حَسَنَةٌ وَمَنْ تُقُبِّلَتْ لَهُ حَسَنَةٌ دَخَلَ الْجَنَّةَ

Hadith 594
Hasan — Al-Albani

Accepting gifts

Abu Hurayra reported that the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "Give gifts and you will love one another."

حَدَّثَنَا عَمْرُو بْنُ خَالِدٍ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا ضِمَامُ بْنُ إِسْمَاعِيلَ قَالَ سَمِعْتُ مُوسَى بْنَ وَرْدَانَ عَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ عَنِ النَّبِيِّ صلى الله عليه وسلم يَقُولُ تَهَادُوا تَحَابُّوا

Hadith 595
Sahih — Al-Albani

Accepting gifts

Anas said to his son, Thabit, "My son, exchange gifts, it will bring about love between you."

حَدَّثَنَا مُوسَى قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا سُلَيْمَانُ بْنُ الْمُغِيرَةِ عَنْ ثَابِتٍ قَالَ كَانَ أَنَسٌ يَقُولُ يَا بَنِيَّ تَبَاذَلُوا بَيْنَكُمْ فَإِنَّهُ أَوَدُّ لِمَا بَيْنَكُمْ

Hadith 596
Sahih — Al-Albani

Someone who does not accept a gift when there

Abu Hurayra said, "A man from the Banu Fazara gave a camel tot he Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, and he gave him something in exchange for it. That angered the man and I heard the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, state on the minbar, 'One of you gives a gift and when I give him something in exchange he becomes angry. By Allah, after this year, I will never accept a gift from any Arab except for Quraysh, the Ansar, a Thaqifi or a Dawsi!'"

حَدَّثَنَا أَحْمَدُ بْنُ خَالِدٍ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ إِسْحَاقَ عَنْ سَعِيدِ بْنِ أَبِي سَعِيدٍ عَنْ أَبِيهِ عَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ قَالَ أَهْدَى رَجُلٌ مِنْ بَنِي فَزَارَةَ لِلنَّبِيِّ صلى الله عليه وسلم نَاقَةً فَعَوَّضَهُ فَتَسَخَّطَهُ فَسَمِعْتُ النَّبِيَّ صلى الله عليه وسلم عَلَى الْمِنْبَرِ يَقُولُ يَهْدِي أَحَدُهُمْ فَأُعَوِّضُهُ بِقَدْرِ مَا عِنْدِي ثُمَّ يَسْخَطُهُ وَايْمُ اللهِ لاَ أَقْبَلُ بَعْدَ عَامِي هَذَا مِنَ الْعَرَبِ هَدِيَّةً إِلاَّ مِنْ قُرَشِيٍّ أَوْ أَنْصَارِيٍّ أَوْ ثَقَفِيٍّ أَوْ دَوْسِيٍّ

Hadith 597
Sahih — Al-Albani

Modesty

Abu Mas'ud 'Uqba reported that the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "Part of what people have learned from the words of prophethood is the statement: 'If you do not feel ashamed, do whatever you like."

حَدَّثَنَا أَحْمَدُ بْنُ يُونُسَ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا زُهَيْرٌ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا مَنْصُورٌ عَنْ رِبْعِيِّ بْنِ حِرَاشٍ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو مَسْعُودٍ عُقْبَةُ قَالَ قَالَ النَّبِيُّ صلى الله عليه وسلم إِنَّ مِمَّا أَدْرَكَ النَّاسَ مِنْ كَلاَمِ النُّبُوَّةِ إِذَا لَمْ تَسْتَحِ فَاصْنَعْ مَا شِئْتَ