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Al-Adab Al-Mufrad

Book 1: Parents

كتاب الْوَالِدَيْنِ

Hadith 41
Sahih — Al-Albani

The Dutifulness of someone who maintains what his father

Ibn 'Umar reported that the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "The strongest form of dutifulness is when a man maintains relations with the people his father loved."

حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ اللهِ بْنُ يَزِيدَ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا حَيْوَةُ قَالَ حَدَّثَنِي أَبُو عُثْمَانَ الْوَلِيدُ بْنُ أَبِي الْوَلِيدِ عَنْ عَبْدِ اللهِ بْنِ دِينَارٍ عَنِ ابْنِ عُمَرَ عَنْ رَسُولِ اللهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم قَالَ إِنَّ أَبَرَّ الْبِرِّ أَنْ يَصِلَ الرَّجُلُ أَهْلَ وُدِّ أَبِيهِ

Hadith 42
Da'if — Al-Albani

Do not cut off someone with whom your father maintained ties

Sa'd ibn 'Ubada az-Zurqi reported that his father said, "I was sitting in the mosque in Madina with 'Amr ibn 'Uthman when 'Abdullah ibn Salam walked by, leaning on his nephew. 'Amr left the assembly and showed his concern for him." Then Ibn Salam returned to them and said, "Do what you like, 'Amr ibn 'Uthman," (and he said it two or three times) By the One who sent Muhammad, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, with the Truth, it is in the Book of Allah Almighty (and he said it twice), 'Do not cut off those your father has joined so that that extinguishes your light.'"

أَخْبَرَنَا بِشْرُ بْنُ مُحَمَّدٍ قَالَ أَخْبَرَنَا عَبْدُ اللهِ قَالَ أَخْبَرَنَا عَبْدُ اللهِ بْنُ لاَحِقٍ قَالَ أَخْبَرَنِي سَعْدُ بْنُ عُبَادَةَ الزُّرَقِيُّ أَنَّ أَبَاهُ قَالَ كُنْتُ جَالِسًا فِي مَسْجِدِ الْمَدِينَةِ مَعَ عَمْرِو بْنِ عُثْمَانَ فَمَرَّ بِنَا عَبْدُ اللهِ بْنُ سَلاَّمٍ مُتَّكِئًا عَلَى ابْنِ أَخِيهِ فَنَفَذَ عَنِ الْمَجْلِسِ ثُمَّ عَطَفَ عَلَيْهِ فَرَجَعَ عَلَيْهِمْ فَقَالَ مَا شِئْتَ عَمْرَو بْنَ عُثْمَانَ مَرَّتَيْنِ أَوْ ثَلاَثًا فَوَالَّذِي بَعَثَ مُحَمَّدًا صلى الله عليه وسلم بِالْحَقِّ إِنَّهُ لَفِي كِتَابِ اللهِ عَزَّ وَجَلَّ مَرَّتَيْنِ لاَ تَقْطَعْ مَنْ كَانَ يَصِلُ أَبَاكَ فَيُطْفَأَ بِذَلِكَ نُورُكَ

Hadith 43
Da'if — Al-Albani

Love is inherited

Abu Bakr ibn Hazm reported that one of the Companions of the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, "It is enough that I tell you that the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, 'Love is inherited.'"

حَدَّثَنَا بِشْرُ بْنُ مُحَمَّدٍ قَالَ أَخْبَرَنَا عَبْدُ اللهِ قَالَ أَخْبَرَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ عَنْ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ فُلاَنِ بْنِ طَلْحَةَ عَنْ أَبِي بَكْرِ بْنِ حَزْمٍ عَنْ رَجُلٍ مِنْ أَصْحَابِ النَّبِيِّ صلى الله عليه وسلم قَالَ كَفَيْتُكَ أَنَّ رَسُولَ اللهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم قَالَ إِنَّ الْوُدَّ يُتَوَارَثُ

Hadith 44
Sahih — Al-Albani

A man should not call his father by his name nor sit down before

Abu Hurayra saw two men and said to one of them, "Who is this man in relation to you?" He is my father," he replied. He said, "Do not call him by his own name nor walk in front of him nor sit down before him."

حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو الرَّبِيعِ عَنْ إِسْمَاعِيلَ بْنِ زَكَرِيَّا قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا هِشَامُ بْنُ عُرْوَةَ عَنْ أَبِيهِ أَوْ غَيْرِهِ أَنَّ أَبَا هُرَيْرَةَ أَبْصَرَ رَجُلَيْنِ فَقَالَ لأَحَدِهِمَا مَا هَذَا مِنْكَ فَقَالَ أَبِي فَقَالَ لاَ تُسَمِّهِ بِاسْمِهِ وَلاَ تَمْشِ أَمَامَهُ وَلا تَجْلِسْ قَبْلَهُ

Hadith 45
Da'if — Al-Albani

Can a man call his father by his kunya?

Shahr ibn Hawshab said, "We went out with Ibn 'Umar and Salim said to him, 'Peace, Abu 'Abdu'r-Rahman.'"

حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنُ شَيْبَةَ قَالَ أَخْبَرَنِي يُونُسُ بْنُ يَحْيَى بْنِ نُبَاتَةَ عَنْ عُبَيْدِ اللهِ بْنِ مَوْهَبٍ عَنْ شَهْرِ بْنِ حَوْشَبٍ قَالَ خَرَجْنَا مَعَ ابْنِ عُمَرَ فَقَال لَهُ سَالِمٌ الصَّلاَةَ يَا أَبَا عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ

Hadith 46
Sahih — Al-Albani

Can a man call his father by his kunya?

'Abdullah ibn Dinar said reported that Ibn 'Umar said, "But Abu Hafs 'Umar decided..."

قَالَ أَبُو عَبْدِ اللهِ يَعْنِي الْبُخَارِيَّ حَدَّثَنَا أَصْحَابُنَا عَنْ وَكِيعٍ عَنْ سُفْيَانَ عَنْ عَبْدِ اللهِ بْنِ دِينَارٍ عَنِ ابْنِ عُمَرَ قَالَ لَكِنْ أَبُو حَفْصٍ عُمَرُ قَضَى